Replace legacy jellyfin app with fafflix (adult, cheeztv pattern)

Rebuild the adult media instance as 'fafflix' following the same HA pattern
as the kids instance (cheeztv): Postgres-backed jellyfin-ha fork, Valkey
transcode-lease store, shared-RWX transcode, CNPG + k8up/restic backups,
static CephFS media PVs.

- Add apps/base/fafflix (namespace/labels/secrets/buckets/Vault path fafflix-*)
- fafflix mounts the shared movies/tv subvolumes' adult subtree at
  /media/{movies,tv} plus the kids subtree at /media/{movies,tv}-kids so it can
  resume kids content started on cheeztv; new unique static PV volumeHandles
- Keep serving the legacy hostname jellyfin.k8s.syd1.au.unkin.net (fafflix-tls);
  dedicated fafflix domain deferred, no new public host
- config PVC on cephfs-raid5-delete
- Remove apps/base/jellyfin + overlay; swap jellyfin->fafflix in the media
  ApplicationSet glob and AppProject namespace destination
- No data currently on the adult instance, so the wipe/replace is sanctioned

apps/base/fafflix/cnpg_pooler.yaml

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+---
+# PgBouncer pooler in front of the fafflix-postgres cluster. Jellyfin connects
+# here (fafflix-postgres-pooler:5432) rather than the -rw service so EF Core's
+# connection churn is absorbed by the pool.
+apiVersion: postgresql.cnpg.io/v1
+kind: Pooler
+metadata:
+  name: fafflix-postgres-pooler
+  namespace: fafflix
+spec:
+  cluster:
+    name: fafflix-postgres
+  instances: 2
+  pgbouncer:
+    parameters:
+      default_pool_size: "50"
+      max_client_conn: "200"
+    paused: false
+    poolMode: session
+  template:
+    metadata:
+      labels:
+        app: fafflix-pooler
+    spec:
+      affinity:
+        podAntiAffinity:
+          requiredDuringSchedulingIgnoredDuringExecution:
+            - labelSelector:
+                matchExpressions:
+                  - key: app
+                    operator: In
+                    values:
+                      - fafflix-pooler
+              topologyKey: kubernetes.io/hostname
+      containers: []
+  type: rw