arrstack: add kids backend tier (sonarr/radarr/nzbget-kids)

Split the arrstack media pipeline into an adult and a kids tier so kids
content lives in its own libraries, databases, and downloader while
reusing the shared prowlarr, CNPG cluster, Valkey, media PVCs, and S3
buckets. Backend workloads only — no routing/ingress or arrproxy changes
in this PR; the adult instances are untouched.

- sonarr-kids/radarr-kids: mirror the adult -unkin fork Deployments
  (same images/tags, 3 active-active replicas), pointed at their own
  Postgres DBs (sonarr-kids-main/radarr-kids-main), UrlBase
  /3df803/sonarr and /3df803/radarr, and kids MediaCover/Backup S3
  prefixes; media mounts use the tvshows/kids and movies/kids subPaths
  of the shared media-tv/media-movies PVCs.
- nzbget-kids: second downloader on its own RWO config PVC, writing
  completed downloads into the kids media subtrees for same-filesystem
  hardlink imports.
- postgres: two managed roles + Database CRDs (sonarr-kids/radarr-kids)
  and their VSO-synced <app>-kids-db credential secrets.
- per-app VMPodScrape for each kids exportarr sidecar; register the
  three new apps in the base kustomization.

apps/base/arrstack/postgres/cnpg_cluster.yaml

@@ -86,6 +86,30 @@ spec:
         connectionLimit: -1
         passwordSecret:
           name: prowlarr-db
+      - name: sonarr-kids
+        ensure: present
+        comment: Sonarr (kids) application role (owns sonarr-kids-main)
+        login: true
+        superuser: false
+        createdb: false
+        createrole: false
+        inherit: true
+        replication: false
+        connectionLimit: -1
+        passwordSecret:
+          name: sonarr-kids-db
+      - name: radarr-kids
+        ensure: present
+        comment: Radarr (kids) application role (owns radarr-kids-main)
+        login: true
+        superuser: false
+        createdb: false
+        createrole: false
+        inherit: true
+        replication: false
+        connectionLimit: -1
+        passwordSecret:
+          name: radarr-kids-db
   enablePDB: true
   enableSuperuserAccess: false
   failoverDelay: 0

apps/base/arrstack/postgres/database-radarr-kids.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,15 @@
+---
+# Per-app database owned by the radarr-kids managed role. The fork's provider
+# runs its own schema migrations on first start (advisory-locked, so only one
+# replica migrates). retain: the database survives a Database CRD delete.
+apiVersion: postgresql.cnpg.io/v1
+kind: Database
+metadata:
+  name: radarr-kids-main
+  namespace: arrstack
+spec:
+  cluster:
+    name: arrstack-postgres
+  name: radarr-kids-main
+  owner: radarr-kids
+  databaseReclaimPolicy: retain

apps/base/arrstack/postgres/database-sonarr-kids.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,15 @@
+---
+# Per-app database owned by the sonarr-kids managed role. The fork's provider
+# runs its own schema migrations on first start (advisory-locked, so only one
+# replica migrates). retain: the database survives a Database CRD delete.
+apiVersion: postgresql.cnpg.io/v1
+kind: Database
+metadata:
+  name: sonarr-kids-main
+  namespace: arrstack
+spec:
+  cluster:
+    name: arrstack-postgres
+  name: sonarr-kids-main
+  owner: sonarr-kids
+  databaseReclaimPolicy: retain

apps/base/arrstack/postgres/kustomization.yaml

@@ -9,3 +9,5 @@ resources:
   - database-sonarr.yaml
   - database-radarr.yaml
   - database-prowlarr.yaml
+  - database-sonarr-kids.yaml
+  - database-radarr-kids.yaml

apps/base/arrstack/postgres/vaultstaticsecret.yaml

@@ -58,3 +58,37 @@ spec:
   refreshAfter: 5m
   type: kv-v2
   vaultAuthRef: default
+---
+apiVersion: secrets.hashicorp.com/v1beta1
+kind: VaultStaticSecret
+metadata:
+  name: sonarr-kids-db
+  namespace: arrstack
+spec:
+  destination:
+    create: true
+    name: sonarr-kids-db
+    overwrite: true
+  hmacSecretData: true
+  mount: kv
+  path: kubernetes/namespace/arrstack/default/sonarr-kids-db
+  refreshAfter: 5m
+  type: kv-v2
+  vaultAuthRef: default
+---
+apiVersion: secrets.hashicorp.com/v1beta1
+kind: VaultStaticSecret
+metadata:
+  name: radarr-kids-db
+  namespace: arrstack
+spec:
+  destination:
+    create: true
+    name: radarr-kids-db
+    overwrite: true
+  hmacSecretData: true
+  mount: kv
+  path: kubernetes/namespace/arrstack/default/radarr-kids-db
+  refreshAfter: 5m
+  type: kv-v2
+  vaultAuthRef: default