grafana: deploy Grafana instance, datasource and dashboards

Deploys Grafana in the observability project via the grafana-operator,
mirroring the puppet Grafana but modernised: CNPG for state and Authentik
OIDC for auth. Ports the live datasource + dashboards in as CRs.

Changes (apps/base/grafana):
- CNPG postgres Cluster + rw Pooler (db grafana), plus VaultAuth +
  VaultStaticSecrets pulling postgres/oauth credentials from Vault.
- Grafana CR: postgres backend via the pooler, Authentik generic_oauth
  (client id/secret from the Vault-synced secret, openid/email/profile
  scopes, group->role mapping), root_url grafana.k8s.syd1.au.unkin.net.
- Single GrafanaDatasource (k8s VictoriaMetrics via the operator vmselect
  service); reuses the previous default datasource uid so imported
  dashboards resolve without edits.
- 13 GrafanaDashboards (gzipJson) exported from the current grafana.
- Gateway API (traefik-internal) + HTTPRoute for grafana.k8s.syd1.au.unkin.net.
- Register apps/overlays/*/grafana in the observability ApplicationSet and
  add the grafana namespace to the project destinations.

apps/base/grafana/cnpg_pooler.yaml

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+---
+apiVersion: postgresql.cnpg.io/v1
+kind: Pooler
+metadata:
+  name: postgres-pooler-rw
+  namespace: grafana
+spec:
+  cluster:
+    name: postgres
+  instances: 2
+  pgbouncer:
+    parameters:
+      default_pool_size: "50"
+      max_client_conn: "200"
+    paused: false
+    poolMode: session
+  template:
+    metadata:
+      labels:
+        app: pooler-rw
+    spec:
+      affinity:
+        podAntiAffinity:
+          requiredDuringSchedulingIgnoredDuringExecution:
+            - labelSelector:
+                matchExpressions:
+                  - key: app
+                    operator: In
+                    values:
+                      - pooler-rw
+              topologyKey: kubernetes.io/hostname
+      containers: []
+  type: rw