arrstack: add kids backend tier (sonarr/radarr/nzbget-kids) (#412)

Splits the arrstack media pipeline into an adult and a kids tier so kids content lives in its own libraries, databases, and downloader while reusing the shared prowlarr, CNPG cluster, Valkey, media PVCs, and S3 buckets. Backend workloads only — no routing/ingress, no arrproxy, no adult-instance changes in this PR.

How:
- sonarr-kids / radarr-kids: mirror the adult -unkin fork Deployments (same images/tags, 3 active-active replicas) on their own Postgres DBs (sonarr-kids-main / radarr-kids-main), UrlBase /3df803/sonarr and /3df803/radarr, and kids MediaCover/Backup S3 prefixes.
- Media mounts use the tvshows/kids and movies/kids subPaths of the shared media-tv / media-movies PVCs, so kids libraries are isolated on the same CephFS subvolumes.
- nzbget-kids: second downloader on its own RWO config PVC, completed downloads land in the kids media subtrees for same-filesystem hardlink imports.
- postgres: two managed roles + Database CRDs and their VSO-synced <app>-kids-db credential secrets.
- per-app VMPodScrape for each kids exportarr sidecar; new apps registered in the base kustomization.

Validated: kustomize build + kubeconform (96/96 valid), yamllint + pre-commit clean.
Reviewed-on: #412
Co-authored-by: unkin-agent <unkin-agent@unkin.net>
Co-committed-by: unkin-agent <unkin-agent@unkin.net>

apps/base/arrstack/postgres/cnpg_cluster.yaml

@@ -86,6 +86,30 @@ spec:
         connectionLimit: -1
         passwordSecret:
           name: prowlarr-db
+      - name: sonarr-kids
+        ensure: present
+        comment: Sonarr (kids) application role (owns sonarr-kids-main)
+        login: true
+        superuser: false
+        createdb: false
+        createrole: false
+        inherit: true
+        replication: false
+        connectionLimit: -1
+        passwordSecret:
+          name: sonarr-kids-db
+      - name: radarr-kids
+        ensure: present
+        comment: Radarr (kids) application role (owns radarr-kids-main)
+        login: true
+        superuser: false
+        createdb: false
+        createrole: false
+        inherit: true
+        replication: false
+        connectionLimit: -1
+        passwordSecret:
+          name: radarr-kids-db
   enablePDB: true
   enableSuperuserAccess: false
   failoverDelay: 0

apps/base/arrstack/postgres/database-radarr-kids.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,15 @@
+---
+# Per-app database owned by the radarr-kids managed role. The fork's provider
+# runs its own schema migrations on first start (advisory-locked, so only one
+# replica migrates). retain: the database survives a Database CRD delete.
+apiVersion: postgresql.cnpg.io/v1
+kind: Database
+metadata:
+  name: radarr-kids-main
+  namespace: arrstack
+spec:
+  cluster:
+    name: arrstack-postgres
+  name: radarr-kids-main
+  owner: radarr-kids
+  databaseReclaimPolicy: retain

apps/base/arrstack/postgres/database-sonarr-kids.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,15 @@
+---
+# Per-app database owned by the sonarr-kids managed role. The fork's provider
+# runs its own schema migrations on first start (advisory-locked, so only one
+# replica migrates). retain: the database survives a Database CRD delete.
+apiVersion: postgresql.cnpg.io/v1
+kind: Database
+metadata:
+  name: sonarr-kids-main
+  namespace: arrstack
+spec:
+  cluster:
+    name: arrstack-postgres
+  name: sonarr-kids-main
+  owner: sonarr-kids
+  databaseReclaimPolicy: retain

apps/base/arrstack/postgres/kustomization.yaml

@@ -9,3 +9,5 @@ resources:
   - database-sonarr.yaml
   - database-radarr.yaml
   - database-prowlarr.yaml
+  - database-sonarr-kids.yaml
+  - database-radarr-kids.yaml

apps/base/arrstack/postgres/vaultstaticsecret.yaml

@@ -58,3 +58,37 @@ spec:
   refreshAfter: 5m
   type: kv-v2
   vaultAuthRef: default
+---
+apiVersion: secrets.hashicorp.com/v1beta1
+kind: VaultStaticSecret
+metadata:
+  name: sonarr-kids-db
+  namespace: arrstack
+spec:
+  destination:
+    create: true
+    name: sonarr-kids-db
+    overwrite: true
+  hmacSecretData: true
+  mount: kv
+  path: kubernetes/namespace/arrstack/default/sonarr-kids-db
+  refreshAfter: 5m
+  type: kv-v2
+  vaultAuthRef: default
+---
+apiVersion: secrets.hashicorp.com/v1beta1
+kind: VaultStaticSecret
+metadata:
+  name: radarr-kids-db
+  namespace: arrstack
+spec:
+  destination:
+    create: true
+    name: radarr-kids-db
+    overwrite: true
+  hmacSecretData: true
+  mount: kv
+  path: kubernetes/namespace/arrstack/default/radarr-kids-db
+  refreshAfter: 5m
+  type: kv-v2
+  vaultAuthRef: default