arrstack: run sonarr/radarr/prowlarr active-active on shared Postgres (#arrstack)

Convert the three *arr apps from single-replica upstream LinuxServer/SQLite to
our -unkin2 forks running active-active (replicas 3) on a shared CNPG Postgres
cluster.

- new apps/base/arrstack/postgres/: CNPG Cluster arrstack-postgres (3 instances,
  3 managed login roles sonarr/radarr/prowlarr, throwaway initdb owner), per-app
  Database CRDs (<app>-main), cephrgw backup bucket + nightly ScheduledBackup,
  and 3 VaultStaticSecrets syncing the <app>-db role credentials.
- per app: image -> docker-internal/<app>:v<base>-unkin2; replicas 3 +
  RollingUpdate; drop the apikey-init initContainer + PUID/PGID/TZ; run the
  binary directly with -nosingleinstancecheck; env from a new ConfigMap plus
  Postgres user/password and the API key from Secrets; /config PVC -> RWX
  cephfs-raid5-retain (shared).

apps/base/arrstack/postgres/kustomization.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,11 @@
+---
+apiVersion: kustomize.config.k8s.io/v1beta1
+kind: Kustomization
+
+resources:
+  - vaultstaticsecret.yaml
+  - cnpg_cluster.yaml
+  - cnpg_backup.yaml
+  - database-sonarr.yaml
+  - database-radarr.yaml
+  - database-prowlarr.yaml