## Summary
- Adds `group: gateway.networking.k8s.io` and `kind: Gateway` to all `parentRefs` entries
- Adds `group: ""`, `kind: Service`, and `weight: 1` to all `backendRefs` entries
- Affects 9 HTTPRoute files across artifactapi, cattle-system, consul, kanidm, litellm, paperclip, puppet, and vault
## Why
ArgoCD diffs the desired manifest against the live Kubernetes object. The Gateway API controller defaults these fields when creating/updating objects, so the live state always has them — causing persistent OutOfSync for every HTTPRoute. Same root cause as #153 (certificateRefs).
## Test plan
- [ ] All affected ArgoCD applications show Synced after merge
Reviewed-on: #162
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