Serve stale virtual members while they refresh (#167)

Virtual merges expire after 60s and the next request blocks on every member. One slow member (a large github_rpm remote) makes the re-merge outlast dnf's 30s timeout.

- add `serve_stale` to remotes (model, v2 API, migration 0008, UI, TUI), default false
- serve a flagged member's last good fetch to rpm/deb/alpine merges at once
- refresh it in the background, single-flighted, detached from the request
- block on the member again once its copy is over an hour old, or the flag is off
- prune copies with their merge cache; drop refreshes for evicted entries

Reviewed-on: #167
Co-authored-by: unkin-agent <unkin-agent@unkin.net>
Co-committed-by: unkin-agent <unkin-agent@unkin.net>

pkg/models/remote.go

@@ -73,6 +73,9 @@ type Remote struct {
 	QuarantineDays    int  `json:"quarantine_days,omitempty"`
 
 	StaleOnError bool `json:"stale_on_error"`
+	// ServeStale lets an rpm/deb/alpine virtual merge this member's previous
+	// index while it refreshes in the background.
+	ServeStale bool `json:"serve_stale"`
 
 	ReleasesRemote string `json:"releases_remote,omitempty"`
 	ManagedBy      string `json:"managed_by,omitempty"`