fix: align config with imported state for zero-drift plan

Reorder quality_groups to match provider state (highest quality first),
use correct group structure (omit id/name for single-quality entries),
add lifecycle ignore_changes for sensitive fields (api_key, password),
support explicit name override via YAML for display name mismatches,
and add min_upgrade_format_score attribute.

config/notification/Jellyfin.yaml

@@ -1,3 +1,4 @@
+name: "Emby / Jellyfin"
 host: jellyfin.service.consul
 port: 443
 use_ssl: true